The reason I resign....

what do u think....

Apa yang anda dpt emejin selepas tgk gambar ini, nampak sangat sana sini ada anak / bayi yang di buang oleh manusia yang kononya mempunyai akal.... what a shame thing to do.....

Kenapa Manusia Perlu kahwin... I mean Have Couple / Partner!!

• Sudah fitrah manusia

– sudah lumrah alam, wanita dicipta untuk lelaki dan begitu jugak sebaliknya. Perkahwinan pulak suatu penyatuan di antara dua jiwa dan sesuatu yang menghalalkan hubungan di antara lelaki dan perempuan untuk hidup bersama. So, bleh dikatakan bahawa perkahwinan tue adalah sesuatu yang wajib di dalam hubungan lelaki dan wanita.

• Kerana agama

– Semua agama di dunia ini menyarankan agar manusia berkahwin dan membina keluarga, supaya umatnya berkahwin demi untuk memperbanyakkan keturunan. Dari segi agama, perkahwinan jugak boleh menghalang daripada berlakunya perkara2 yang ditegah atau tak diingini di antara lelaki dan wanita.

– Salah satu sebab penting kenape manusia kawin ialah untuk membina keluarga dengan mengembangkan zuriatnya dengan cara yang halal. Namun, ada gak pasangan yang sudah lama kawin, tapi masih tak dikurniakan rezeki anak. Itu semer kijer Tuhan, dan kita hanya perlu berusaha, bersabar dan banyakkan berdoa.

• Dah sampai jodoh

– Kalau dah ada jodoh tue, lari ke mana pun, akan tetap bertemu jua. Ada orang yang cepat bertemu jodoh dan ada gak yang lambat sket bertemu jodohnya. Tapi, kalu dah sampai seru tue, elokla kawin cepat2 yer..

• Kerana cinta

– Sesetengah orang berkahwin kerna cinta. Atas dasar cinta inilah, seseorang tue mempunyai keinginan untuk hidup semati dengan pilihan hatinya. Kengkadang tue, ada sesetengah orang sampai tak mau kawin langsung jika tak dapat hidup dengan cinta hatinya. So, cinta nie bleh dikatakan antara sebab penting berlakunya perkahwinan di antara 2 insan.

• Mengelakkan fitnah orang ramai

– Dalam masyarakat Melayu khususnya, berdua-duaan di antara lelaki dan wanita yg belum kawin adalah sesuatu yang ditegah oleh agama. Kalu dah ada ikatan perkahwinan yg sah tu, nak buat apa2 pun, takde orang yang akan larang ataupun membuat fitnah, betul tak? So, cepat2 lah kawin… :-p

•  Sebagai Peneman Hidup

–  Kehidupan bleh jadi sangat sunyi kalu takde orang untuk berkongsinya. Semua orang perlukan teman hidup. Pergi ke mana2 berdua, cakap2 pun berdua dan kongsi masalah pun berdua. Dan yang bestnya, kalu kita sakit, ada orang yang jaga kita J Perkahwinan mengelakkan seseorang tue daripada hidup bersendirian sampai ke tua.

• Untuk jamin kehidupan yang lebih baik

– “2 is better than 1”, betul tak? – maksudnya kalu dah berkahwin tue, kedua2 suami isteri nie dapat saling lengkap-melengkapi di antara satu sama lain. Kewangan pun akan bertambah mantap jika kedua laki bini bekerja, jadi kehidupan boleh menjadi lebih baik lagi.

Perbezaannya Antara Lelaki Dan Perempuan

 1. Wanita menarik nafas lebih kerap daripada lelaki, manakal...a lelaki menarik nafas lebih dalam daripada wanita.

2. Sistem badan lelaki dan wanita pun tidak sama. Lelaki lebih banyak memerlukan oksigen berbanding wanita supaya mereka dapat menukarnya menjadi tenaga.

3. Kulit lelaki lebih kasar, kulit perempuan lebih halus.

4. Perempuan lebih halus suara berbanding lelaki yang kasar dan besar suaranya.

5. Lelaki memiliki tulang anggota yang lebih panjang berbanding wanita. Tulang wanita bukan sekadar lebih kecil malah susunannya berbeza disebabkan wanita diciptakan Tuhan dengan struktur tubuh bagi melahirkan anak.

6. Demikian juga pada segi psikologi, wanita secara umum lebih bersikap mudah mengikut kata hati, lebih berminat kepada cinta dan kasih sayang dan hubungan perasaan.

7. Apabila mengamati benda, kedua-duanya juga berbeza. Lelaki lebih menggunakan pengamatan tumpuan. Manakala wanita menggunakan lebih pengamatan luas dan membesar. Pengamatan lelaki ibarat cahaya laser yang menumpu kepada sesuatu objek. Manakala, pengamatan wanita ibarat lampu suluh, yang membuka; menampakkan banyak benda.

8. Wanita mahu mengambil tahu semua perkara. Daripada perkara kecil sehingga perkara besar. Sementara lelaki hanya menumpukan kepada matlamat utama;

9. Cuba perhatikan kepada wanita, apa yang mereka bawa apabila berjalan keluar rumah. Tengok sahaja pada beg tangan mereka. Lebih besar daripada lelaki. Lelaki membawa beg kecil sahaja. Di dalamnya hanya ada lesen kenderaan, duit, surat-surat penting dan kad kredit bank. Dalam beg tangan wanita semuanya ada. Di dalam beg tangan perempuan ada dompet duit, kad kredit, buku bank, buku cek, ada alatan make-up, cermin, sikat rambut, tisu muka, pengetip kuku, kunci pen, pensel, ubat sakit kepala, gambar suami, gambar anak, cermin mata hitam, buku telefon, tuala ehem.. ehem...dan macam-macam lagi.

10. Kenapa sedemikian dilakukan oleh wanita? Jawabnya kerana wanita memikirkan pelbagai kemungkinan perkara yang boleh berlaku. Mereka lebih peka, apabila sesuatu terjadi, persediaan sudah pun dilakukan. Ini bermakna pemikiran dan penumpuan wanita lebih lebar.

11. Pada lelaki, cukup dengan lesen memandu dan duit. Sebab mereka mahu sampai ke matlamat. Duit untuk membeli. Lesen memandu supaya selamat daripada disoal polis.

Demikianlah perbezaan yang wujud antara lelaki dan wanita. Kerana itu, tidak hairan apabila suami isteri ini melihat banyak perkara secara berbeza. Urusan-urusan rumah tangga kadang-kadang ditangani secara berbeza. Contohnya, suami isteri yang kedua-duanya bekerja, mereka terpaksa keluar dari rumah awal 2 pagi.

Dalam banyak hal, wanita bekerja yang paling kerap bersungut. Suaminya, apabila keluar sahaja dari rumah, yang dibawa hanya kunci kereta, masuk dalam kereta dan hidupkan enjin, kemudian tunggu isteri. Matlamat mereka ke pejabat. Manakala si isteri, memikirkan apa yang anak bawa ke sekolah, baju di ampaian siapa hendak ambil, anak belum pakai baju lagi, anak belum makan lagi. Kalau bolehnya, dia mahu memikirkan semua benda, kerana padanya, apabila sesuatu terjadi, bagaimana kesudahannya? Biar lewat ke tempat kerja, asalkan semuanya beres.

Apabila si suami dan si isteri ke kompleks membeli belah. Si isteri, apabila masuk sahaja ke pusat membeli belah dia melihat banyak benda dahulu, satu persatu, perlahan-lahan, dari atas ke bawah, kain ini dipegang, diperhatikan digeselkan. Kemudian pegang pula kain lain, selepas berjam-jam barulah dibuat pilihan membeli.
Pendek kata, si suami yang menjadi pengikut setia mudah bosan. Bagi lelaki apabila hendak membeli sesuatu, terus dituju ke tempat yang ingin dibeli dan membeli. Membeli belah pada lelaki tidak mengambil masa yang lama seperti perempuan.

Contoh-contoh tersebut menunjukkan wanita mengamati sesuatu berbeza daripada lelaki. Sebab itu, jangan bergaduh selepas membeli belah, jangan bergaduh ketika mahu ke tempat kerja. Si isteri jangan putus asa melihat si suami, apabila keluar sahaja dari rumah terus masuk kereta.Tanpa mengangkat botol susu anak, kain lampin anak, dan berbagai lagi untuk dibawa ke rumah pengasuh.
Akuilah kita berbeza. Perbezaan bukan untuk bermusuh, sebaliknya bagi saling membantu dan berkasih sayang. Kerana kita berbeza, kita lebih berkasih sayang.

Jangan disebabkan perbezaan pada cara berkasih sayang antara lelaki dengan seorang wanita, maka timbul krisis rumah tangga berpuluh tahun. Tentulah kerana perbezaan yang ada antara kita itu, maka kita lebih berkasih sayang.

Kerana itu, kita berbeza supaya saling sayang menyayangi.

Stairway To Heaven

The Plot of the drama, actualy this is the plot from the original drama korean but i just change the charactor name in philipine drama series.....

Stairway To Heaven….

The story is about Jodi and her best friend, Cholo As childhood friends, Jodi and Cholo had a special bond that blossomed into love. They were always together, even when Cholo father died and when Jodi mother died. After a few months, Jodi father met an actress and fell in love with her. The two were married and Jodi was very happy that her father was finally smiling, staring to Cholo,  that she had not seen her father smile like that since before her mother died. After her stepmother moved in, she brought her real daughter, Eunice, and her son, Tristan, into her new family, but when Jodi father left for work, her stepmother assaulted Jodi. 

She thwarted Jodi attempts to study abroad with Cholo, who left to America to study abroad alone, leaving a sad Jodi behind. Jodi was left alone to suffer in the silent cruelty of her step sister, Eunice, and new step mother. Jodi cruel stepmother plotted for her own daughter, Eunice, to win the affections of Cholo, who came from a rich family, and thwarted any attempts of Jodi to be with Cholo. All the while, Jodi tried to be nice to her new step brother, Tristan, who mistook this friendship for affection. Tristan fell in love with Jodi.

Cholo was in America for three years. On the night of his return, an excited Jodi rushed to greet him. A jealous Eunice tried to stop the two lovebirds from reuniting so, as they raced to the airport, Eunice spotted Jodi and intentionally ran her over with her car. Jodi, then unconscious, was taken to the hospital where a group of people had just died in fire. Eunice swapped Jodi ID with one of the people that just died in the fire to fake her death. She took the real Jodi to her biological father's home. 

Tristan, still in love with Jodi, found out what Eunice had done, but saw the accident as a chance to run away with Jodi, who would otherwise return to Cholo. Eunice and Tristan, along with their father, were the only ones who knew what had happened, and Tristan's father agreed to cover for his daughter. Jodil ost her memory, and Tristan moved them away and changed their names. Meanwhile, at the scene of the crime, Cholo found a blood-stained picture of the two of them from their youth.

Five years after the accident, it seemed that Eunice had won the battle of love; she was soon to be engaged to Cholo. The day before getting together with the families to arrange the engagement, Cholo decided that he needed to let go of Jodi. He went to the carousel they used to ride as children and whispered a wish to see Jodij ust once more. He looked up and saw her on the carousel. Jodi who was now Jenna (after being renamed by Tristan). Cholo rushed to Jenna and told her that she is Jodi, but she did not believe Cholo words. However, Cholo believed that it really was Jodi, and determined to make her remember her past and the love she had for him. Through a series of events, he and Jodi became close. 

Jodi family also met her and were shocked by her similarity to the daughter they thought was dead. Eunice and her mother, who both knew the truth, were terrified that Jodi would regain her memory, ruining their plans. However, Jodi did not remember her past life and Cholo finally realized that he was mistaken.

Fortunately, one day, Jodi regained her memory when Eunice nearly hit her with her car again, when Jodi ran in front of her vehicle. She rushed to tell Cholo. She went back to Tristan and he told her the truth—the accident, her memory loss, and everything else, and forgave him, as she knew he did it out of love, and tried to forget the memories. Luck seemed to be on the side of the two lovers, Jodi and Cholo, until Jodi discovered she has eye cancer. 

Depressed, she went to Tristan and told him to take her away from Cholo, since she could not bear to see him in pain, because she noticed she was losing her vision. Gradually, Jodi vision deteriorated into blindness. Determined to not cause any more sadness to his stepsister, Tristan told Cholo and his family the truth, with Tristan's biological father providing further evidence. Eunice was arrested and her mother was sent to a mental institute. Jodi married Cholo, who was now blind.

Over the few weeks that followed, Jodi and Cholo spent quality time together as husband and wife; Tristan and Cholo even became good friends. Jodi told Tristan that her one wish was to see Cholo face for one last time. Both Cholo and Tristan (separately) asked a doctor to allow them to give Jodi one of their corneas, but the doctor informed them that they were not allowed to take corneas from live donors. Jodi left the hospital disappointed, while Tristan thought pensively about Jodi last wish. He decided that he wanted to grant that wish at all costs and began to set in motion his plan. He created fake pictures of himself and a girl in France, wrote letters to be sent later, and told his friends and family that he would be going to Paris, France for his art and was not sure when he would return. 

What everyone did not realize was that Tristan decided to commit suicide in order to donate his cornea to Jodi because of everything he, his mother, and sister took away from her. He intentionally created a car accident to cause his death. After his death, Jodi had the operation and was able to see again. However, Jodi later on found out that the cancer had already metastasized. Though Cholo wanted her to pursue all the chemotherapy treatments to live, she decided that she would much rather spend time with him than "die in a hospital". She also found out about Tristan's sacrifice for her and decided to only see things that are good and beautiful. Jodi also visited Eunice in jail and her stepmother in the hospital, shortly before her death. Jodi died a few days later, at the seaside near her childhood house, in the arms of Cholo

The epilogue shows Cholo playing a tune that he used to play for Jodi during their childhood. At length, he stands up, asking Jodi if she can hear him.

Live My Life in Solitude ( ost striving for a sun eng subt)

Paling jatuh cinta dengan drama thai ni, sangat lain dari yang lain, sangat jarang ada watak utama bawa watak yang sangat kejam dan jahat.... love lah sangat2!!! dan ini adalah salah satu lagu dalam drama tu, n i love it, tp dah di aleh bahasa kan ke bahasa english, n sedih gak dier punye lirik tu... enjoy ya..

(Yoo Doai Mai Lurah Krai)

Ost Striving for A Sun

The lonelier I am

The more incapable I seem to be of love

Like the sun hovering high up in the sky

Reigning above all alone

Absent of another’s shadow

The temperature is reaching boiling point,

Destroying everything…

How long will you be able to last by my side?

Your heartache is inevitable

This is my fate

I am destined to remain alone

No matter how much I love you,

No matter how deep my love is for you

We probably won’t make it to the end

Someone is bound to get hurt

The other to be heartbroken

I have to live, live my life in solitude,

I want to change how things are,

But at last, I can’t

In the end, I can only be a lonesome sun

We shouldn’t have wavered

Shouldn’t have gotten close

If nothing had been started, we wouldn’t have gotten hurt

How long will you be able to last by my side?

Your heartache is inevitable

This is my fate

I am destined to remain alone

No matter how much I love you,

No matter how deep my love is for u

We probably won’t make it to the end

Someone is bound to get hurt

The other to be heartbroken

I have to live, live my life in solitude,

Someone is bound to get hurt

The other to be heartbroken

Whereas I have to live on in solitude……………..

When we gathered!!! the PPN'ian!!!

just 1 day before eyta went back to KL, we make plan gathering for the las time at D11 steamboat.. me, eyta, bun, eyda, sue, and sura lepaking together, n make a havoc time over there wakakakak.... 

sik ada gk duli ngan org area sia, dah polah cam umah mek org mpun... mek org di sia since 7 to 10pm wahhhh, nang melantak lah mek org sia!! makanan nya steady bha, terutama bila enkah mcm2 lam sup ya alu jadi nyaman sup ya wow!! sluuurrrppppp!!! udang panggang, kambing panggang arrhhhh iboh di cerita nang sedap babe!!! 

kitak org leh try g sitok!! wakakaka!! tau sik aek mek org jak dah rm30 apu!! nang ntah apa2 ntah lah mek org ari ya!!... fuhhhh!!! kenyang giler babe!! wish to come here again!! yippy!!

want to say selamat pengantin baru to khay & bulet

Tahniah buat sahabat ku, A.Rahim & N.Qaseh di atas perkahwenan mereka pada 30 / 7 / 2010, aritu, sori lambat wish heheh... papapun, tahniah ya,...

wat a boring day....

Aritok las day aku off huh... kenak beri phoff paksa, heran juak kan, bila kita mok, sik diberi, tp bila kta sik mok bukan main gik merik alasan cda org ada hak merik... hmmm weirdo!! n then kan... 

Hmmm n then kan, masih juak cda nya salah molah aku mpun balance cuti & balance phoff or roff!! tiap kali roster kuar, mesti aku emo!! arggghhhh!!! pelu kah berulang semula!!

Kelak nak ada jak alasan diberi huh!!! owez lah like tht!! until when hah?? until when?? aku tauk lah aku tok just jawatan lepasan SPM setakat pembantu jak nak, tp sik bermakna ktk org leh molah sesuka hati jak o... plss lah...

sabar jak aku... sapa lah aku tok....

-end- ( sik tau apa mok di padah agk...) 

Im back, n now will be back for a long long time....

oh my, it been such a long long time i din update my blog hahahah, well one of the reason is bcoz im way too bz with facebook game hahahah..... really cant miss those game each time i online... so sori fan(aku ader ke) hahahah... watever rite.... ok after this i want to upload a lot of pic which i wanted to shared to all.... <3 u all